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Lami Didi is online

Let’s find your jodi.

Matchmaking for Nepalese singles in Nepal and Australia. Your photo stays private until you both say yes.

The quiz takes a minute. No signup.

तिम्रो जोडी, मेरो खोजी

Timro jodi, mero khoji: your match, my search.

Forget the old biodata. My vibe check is a quick chat about your dal bhat count, your music and your green flags. Caste and salary never show up on your Vibe Card.

Vibe Card

Photo sealed

Name
Asha
Age
26
Lives in
Sydney
Works in
IT & tech
Dal bhat a day
Every meal
On repeat
Sajjan Raj Vaidya
Green flag
Texts back
Looking for
Marriage 💍

A perfect Sunday looks like…

Chiya in bed, a long walk at Bondi, then momo with friends.

  • Caste
  • Gotra
  • Salary
  • Complexion

Never on your card.

Lami Didi approved
A Vibe Card listing name, age, lives in, works in, dal bhat a day, on repeat, green flag, looking for. Caste, gotra, salary and complexion are never shown.

How it works

Straight from Didi’s chat.

Lami Didi

online

  1. You: Didi, how does this work?
  2. Lami Didi: Easy. First, create your vibe check. It’s a quick chat with me, not a form.
  3. You: Can I be picky? 👀
  4. Lami Didi: Obviously. In my dealbreaker round you choose what matters, like Australia only, PR or same religion. Must-have or nice to have, your call.
  5. Lami Didi: Then I send you a few hand-picked matches each day. No endless swiping.
  6. You: And my photo?
  7. Lami Didi: Sealed in my envelope until you both say yes. Then you can chat.
  8. Lami Didi: Share your number only when you’re ready. Promise 💌

Your photo stays in my envelope until you say so.

  • Only your nickname, age, city and answers are shown.
  • Caste, gotra and visa status stay private. I only use them for matching.
  • I check everyone’s selfie myself, privately.
  • You can block or report anyone, anytime.
  • No Facebook login. Nothing ever gets posted anywhere.
How I keep you safe

Sealed. Nobody sees your photo yet.

From Kathmandu to Sydney

Two homes, one community. I match Nepalese singles in both, and anyone open to long distance.

Boudhanath Stupa with prayer flags in Kathmandu
Kathmandu afternoons
Machhapuchhre reflected in Phewa Lake, Pokhara
Pokhara mornings
Sydney Opera House and the city lit up at night
Sydney nights

Photos by Arun Hamal and Nishess Shakya on Pexels.

Picks from Kathmandu to Perth

Once I’ve checked your selfie, you get up to ten picks a day. The more people from your city join, the better your picks, so bring your friends.

Australia

  • Sydney
  • Melbourne
  • Brisbane
  • Perth

Nepal

  • Kathmandu Valley
  • Pokhara
  • Chitwan
  • Butwal
Create my vibe check

Questions

Is it free?

Yes. Nothing on Lami Didi is behind a paywall, and nothing is going behind one.

Who can join?

Anyone 18 or older in Nepal or Australia who's open to finding a life partner, whoever you're looking for.

Do I have to want marriage right now?

No. Pick “Just curious” and take your time. I only match you with people who want the same thing.

Can I be picky about who I see?

Yes! In my dealbreaker round you choose what matters: where they live, visa status, work field, religion, caste, a gotra check and more. Mark each one as a must-have or nice to have.

How do I meet people?

Once I've checked your selfie, you get up to ten picks a day: people who fit what you're looking for. Tap 💘 on the ones you like. If they like you back, it's a match, your photos unblur, and you can chat right here. Swap numbers only when you're both ready.

Will anyone see my caste or visa status?

Never. Caste, gotra, religion and visa status stay private. I only use them for matching, and only if you choose to answer.

Who can see my photos?

Nobody, until you both say yes. Everyone sees your photos blurred until you match. Then they unblur, just for the two of you.

How do you know people are real?

Everyone sends me a quick selfie, and I check each one myself. Your selfie never shows on your profile, and I delete it once you’re verified.

Who is Lami Didi?

I'm a Nepalese creator who started playing matchmaker on TikTok. So many of you asked for help that I built this.